This has been an age old confusion ever since the Dynamic Management Views changed the way SQL Performance monitoring was done.
A SPID/Session ID will show up as Sleeping/Awaiting Command when it has no active work request that it needs to execute on the Database Engine. Consider the following scenario:
1. You connect to a SQL instance using Management Studio
2. You execute: SELECT @@SPID
3. You then open another SSMS query window and try and lookup the Session ID returned by the output of Step #2 using the DMV: sys.dm_exec_requests.
If you didn’t know of this behavior, then you will be in for a surprise! This is because the Session ID associated with the query in Step #2 has no active work to perform which is why the DMV didn’t report a row for that particular session. However, when you look up this session id using sys.dm_exec_connections or sys.sysprocesses. The reason sys.sysprocesses reports this SPID is because it doesn’t differentiate between a session with/without an active work request. It will report all SPIDs currently connected to the database engine.
The above behavior is expected and by-design.
Bob Dorr has mentioned about this in his post on the CSS SQL Escalation blog and also talks about how this can affect concurrency if such a session has open transactions: